🪔 The Cultural Significance of Palagarams in Tamil & Sri Lankan Weddings

by Gajan Umapathy

💛 More Than Just Sweets — They’re Symbols of Celebration

For generations, palagarams — the traditional sweet and savoury treats of Tamil and Sri Lankan culture — have been an essential part of every wedding celebration.
They’re more than food; they’re a way of sharing love, joy, and prosperity with family and guests.

At Rani’s, every laddu, murukku, and milk toffee carries that same tradition forward — freshly made, just like our mothers and grandmothers prepared them for weddings back home.

🍬 What Are Palagarams?

In Tamil, “palagaram” (பலகரம்) means snack — but in a wedding context, it means so much more.
Palagarams are the carefully prepared selection of sweets and savouries offered to guests before and after the wedding ceremony.

They often include:

  • Sweet varieties like Boondi Laddu, Rava Laddu, Mysore Paak, and Kiri Aluwa

  • Savoury favourites like Mixture, Murukku, and Vadai

These treats are lovingly packed in boxes and shared with relatives, friends, and even neighbours — a gesture that says, “Our family celebrates with yours.”

🎊 A Symbol of Love and Unity

Every Tamil or Sri Lankan wedding is not just the union of two people — it’s the coming together of two families and entire communities.
Palagarams play a symbolic role in that unity.

  • Sweetness represents a wish for a sweet life ahead for the couple.

  • Crispy, crunchy savouries represent strength, diversity, and the variety of relationships within the family.

  • The act of sharing — distributing these snacks — is a way of extending blessings and gratitude to all who join the celebration.

🍯 Tradition Meets Modern Craft

In the past, palagarams were prepared by families days before the wedding — a joyful, communal effort that filled homes with the scent of ghee and roasted gram flour.
Today, Rani’s continues that tradition with a modern touch — crafting each batch by hand, with the same recipes passed down through generations, and delivering them fresh to every event.

We prepare everything within a week of the big day, so the sweets taste just as they should — soft, aromatic, and unforgettable.

💍 Palagarams at Modern Weddings

Tamil and Sri Lankan weddings in the UK have beautifully blended old and new — vibrant ceremonies, modern venues, and families that still hold on to the authentic flavours of home.

That’s why we work closely with Unavu Kitchen, so our Rani’s palagarams can be part of full catering packages — complete with sweet boxes, guest gifts, and platters that add a touch of tradition to every table.

✨ Celebrating Heritage, One Sweet at a Time

Every bite of a palagaram carries a story — of family, community, and shared joy.
At Rani’s, we’re proud to be part of that story, helping families in the UK celebrate their roots while creating new memories for the next generation.

📍 Handmade with love in London
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